TEENAGER’S RELATIONSHIP

Teenagers to have a dating in dare early years is not worthy, because teenagers in their early years are better to study seriously and think about their career first. After they’re successed then they could dating whatever they want it. The suitable age teenager for dating is about 18 years old, because they already can control their emotional and likely could handle their own problem. So, they could do problem solving until the situation get better.

            Parents should taking interference on dare children’s relationship. Of course it’s needed for teenagers, because however parents had even grown up from child to adult. So they might know if there is some problem in their relationship and likely could help or give some solution. You will know whether you are suffering a dating abusive if a person uses a pattern of violent behavior through means of verbal, physical or sexual intimidation to gain power and control of their partner. For example :

     ·         Physical abuse : Any intentional use of physical force meant to cause fear or injury, like hitting, shoving, biting, strangling, kicking or using a weapon.

     ·         Emotional abuse : Non-physical behavior such as threats, insults, humiliation, intimidation, isolation, or stalking.

     ·         Sexual abuse : Any action that forces undesired sexual behavior on you by another person. This includes making you do anything you don’t want to do sexually, refusing to have sex, aggressively pressuring you to go further than you want to sexually, or making you feel badly about yourself sexually.

The suffering of dating abusive will be solve by fill the relationship with the positive activity. Moreover, in the relationship sometimes we have to talking each other about conflict that we had. Beside, we have to respect each other to avoid those suffer. If you can’t solve the suffering of dating abusive, you can confide in someone you trust like a friend, your parents or a teacher. It is going to be easier to face the situation with a good support system. Don’t hesitate to talk to a consellor. If it’s not enough and out of control you can call the police.